STOP THINK Is that problem as big as you are making it to be? Or have you given it a life of it's own by the focus you have put into it? Our problems are problems thus the name........Yet not all problems are as bad as we make them. We spend so much time dwelling on them, imagining the worst case, feeling sorry for ourselves or simply thinking life is unfair. Our problems as bad as they may be have solutions.....but no solution can be found until we STOP giving them so much power.